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It’s Okay to Fail: You’re Still thatgirl

Mar 11

Written By Sonya Grey

Let’s say this out loud together: Failure is not the opposite of success—it’s part of it.
Somewhere along the way, we were told that messing up means we’re not good enough. That if we fall short, it’s over. But the truth is, failure is not final. It’s not a label. It’s a lesson. And every girl who’s doing big things has failed her way forward.

At That Girl Magazine, we believe in shooting your shot, even if you miss. Why? Because every time you try again, you’re building something stronger: your resilience.

You didn’t get the grade. You didn’t make the team. You lost the friend. The plan didn’t work out. That stings. But guess what? You’re still here. You’re still learning. You’re still that girl.

Failing doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re brave. Brave enough to step out, to try, to care. And the world needs more girls like you—girls who keep going, keep growing, and keep believing in what’s possible.

So give yourself grace. Cry if you need to. Then get up, dust off, and remember: Your failure doesn’t define you. Your comeback does.

Mistakes will happen. Doors may close. But you? You’re just getting started.